Being Failure

By Ali Akbar Shah

Success and failure go hand in hand. It is not always obligatory to attain success on the very first attempt. Sometimes, success is achieved after going through assorted failures. Failure has its own importance. Many unknown facts are perceived after getting failed. You will observe your acquaintance behave differently with you after you are failed but one should be aware of the consequences of failure and should be concocted for it. Failure is not unfavorable at all instead the word F.A.I.L means First Attempt In Learning. Failure gives you more time for searching your soul in solitude and it make us realize your mistakes.  It is a part of a life and a great step forward in realizing our mistakes that would have been ambiguous if we would have achieved success without getting failed.

Even the famous Thomas Edison who has more than a thousand patents was once told by his teacher that he was “ to stupid to learn anything” and the great Albert Einstein, who is known for his famous “ Theory of general Relativity” and “ The Photoelectric Effect” had difficulty while communicating and was rejected from many job positions after which he finally made his way to Patent office as a clerk. All such like great famous personality had one special quality of handling failure and they were best critics of themselves.

Everyone makes mistakes and no one is perfect in this World but to demoralize yourself after facing failure is wrong. You must know the risk of the failure, should not be afraid of it, should not quit on your dreams, your ambitions and should never allow yourself suffer from inferiority complex.  No matter how devastating failure can be for you but you should never lose your spirit and your passion that made you go for your dreams on the very first place. Weak are the people who give up their dreams and are eventually forgotten. Remember as a kid you wanted to do so much for this World, please don’t let go of that kid in you that have dreams which needs to be fulfilled. This World is cruel and it will criticize you at every phase of life but instead of going down, get back up again and accomplish what you have dream , what you have desired , what you wanted to be. Believe in yourself and your capabilities. You are the future and you are the hope to this World.

You only live once and no matter what you do, you have to taste bitter death at the last. So why do you kill your ambitions?  Why don’t you believe in yourself? Never let fear of failure hesitate you from achieving your dreams. Your body can adjust on your ambitions so why do you kill your ambitions? It is not the failure standing on your way but it is the fear that you have of getting failed. There are no shortcuts to success. You have to understand that failure is part of success. Instead of quitting, you should continue your struggle for achieving your dreams and you have to go through failures before making your way to success. The bad thing is to give up so please never give up on your dreams and don’t let fear of failure stop you from achieving your dreams.

SURMISE- FREE

By Ali Akbar Shah

“Free them from surmise or their talent will be demised” …

Everyone is special and born with a peculiar talent that needs to be recognized but lamentably that talent is perished under the heap of expectations of our parents and society on us. Mostly, parents have their expectations on their children since their birth. The expectations that, were never accomplished by them and were abundant with time. They fantasy their children to fulfill it for them. These expectations of parents on their children can somehow prove to be perilous.

Consider what if Shoaib Akhtar’s mother wanted him to be a singer? Or what if Nazia Hassan’s parents would have coerced her to marry someone?  If their talents couldn’t have been discovered then the World would have missed the bowling sensation like Shoaib Akhtar and a remarkable singer in Nazia Hassan. Seems pretty cataclysmic no? Such gems could never have been perceived if expectations were laid on them.

What our society fails to recognize is the talent and potential in their children. Education is not only about learning but also is a development of one’s talent.  Education is beyond marks and grades.  Education develops the character of a person and helps them to become a better person.  But it’s a matter of great grief, how we interpret education as a process of helping the child grab higher grades.

 Everyone in us were targeted by the criticism for not securing higher marks and were been compared with our siblings on the basis of marks and good grades. Merely, because of this criticism a child determines having higher grades and marks as his only objective by every mean possible due to which his character develops to be selfish one.

 A change can brought in our society by just asking our child instead of securing good grades, they should try to help others. Simple questions like “Who did you help today? “or “ To whom did you make happy? “ can bring change in the psychology of our children. They will consider helping others as their topmost priority and turn out to be humanitarian.

 By just with the concept of helping others, a group of humanitarian can be developed that can bring up the change for a better World.